Alright, let’s dive into the real story behind Ryan Seacrest and Aubrey Paige Petcosky's breakup. You’ve probably heard the headlines, but there’s more to this story than meets the eye. According to a source close to the couple, Ryan’s hectic schedule played a big role in the end of their three-year relationship. Aubrey, who's a successful entrepreneur and cofounder of Sippin’ on Somethin’, was ready for the next chapter in life—marriage and kids. “She’s not exactly keeping it a secret that she wants to settle down,” the source reveals. “It shouldn’t come as a surprise to anyone who knows her.”

Why Ryan Seacrest Isn’t Ready to Settle Down

On the flip side, Ryan, who’s been keeping America entertained for years with shows like American Idol and Wheel of Fortune, just isn’t in the same place. The 49-year-old host is all about his work, and let’s face it, he’s got a lot on his plate. “The truth is, he’s happiest when he’s working,” the source explains. “Ryan’s such a workhorse, it’s practically his second nature.” Between hosting multiple shows and managing his radio empire with On Air With Ryan Seacrest, his schedule left little room for anything—or anyone—else. “Ryan’s so busy, and that didn’t help,” the insider adds. “With his packed agenda, Aubrey wasn’t getting the attention she needed, so they both decided it was time to call it quits.”

Breaking the News: A Mutual Decision

On April 24, Ryan’s rep confirmed the split to People magazine, shedding some light on the situation. “After three beautiful years together, Ryan and Aubrey have mutually decided to part ways,” a source close to the couple said. “They plan to stay in each other’s lives as good friends and continue supporting each other’s endeavors.” Sounds like they’re leaving the door open for friendship, which is always a good sign. Fans were left scratching their heads, especially after Ryan gave Aubrey a shoutout on Instagram just weeks before the breakup. “Congratulations @aubreypaige_ for bringing this great idea to life, so proud of you @sippinonsomethin,” he wrote alongside a series of photos featuring her card game. Clearly, things were still good—or so we thought.

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The Family Plans That Never Were

Here’s the kicker: the couple had been talking about starting a family together. “Ryan is known for dragging his feet when it comes to settling down, but he and Aubrey had definitely discussed having a baby,” the source reveals. “Aubrey wants a wedding first, which has been something Ryan has avoided his entire adult life.” Meanwhile, Ryan’s family and even his American Idol costars were rooting for them to take the next step. “Lionel Richie and Luke Bryan have both been telling him about the joys of fatherhood,” the source adds. “And during a live American Idol airing, Katy Perry actually yelled at him, ‘Yes, it’s time!’” Talk about pressure!

But Ryan, who’s never been married and doesn’t have any kids, has been open about feeling the weight of expectations. “I’m happy. I’m happy in the present moment,” he told Lisa Rinna on Live With Kelly and Ryan last year. “I don’t think about everything else.” However, he did admit that having kids at the right time would be great. “I have a fantastic family, even though it’s a very small one,” he added. It seems like Ryan’s still figuring things out, and that’s okay.