You know that voice, right? The one that could melt your heart with just a few notes. Karen Carpenter had that kind of magic. But behind the scenes, she was fighting a battle that most of her fans never saw. It was a struggle with anorexia nervosa, a disorder that silently consumed her. "She loved food, but she was afraid of food," her close friend Cristina Ferrare tells Closer Weekly in their latest issue. This disease isn’t just about food; it’s a thief of joy, making you hide parts of yourself even from those who care deeply.
The Struggles Behind the Smile
By the mid-'70s, Karen’s battle with her weight was becoming more visible. Her once vibrant presence on stage was overshadowed by a frail frame that worried many. In 1975, the duo, The Carpenters, had to cancel a European and Japanese tour because Karen’s weight had dropped dangerously low. Her brother, Richard, recalled to People in 1983, "She lived on salads, maybe dry toast for breakfast." It was a heartbreaking reality for a woman who had so much love to give through her music.
The Carpenter Duo: More Than Just Music
Richard and Karen were a team in every sense of the word. When Karen took the mic, her voice carried the weight of her heart, and Richard was always by her side, playing the keyboard. Together, they were The Carpenters, but their journey wasn’t without its challenges. Their mother, Agnes, had dreams for Richard that didn’t include Karen. As Randy L. Schmidt, author of Little Girl Blue: The Life of Karen Carpenter, explains, "The family’s goal was that he become a piano superstar; Karen, from a very young age, was groomed to support him." This lack of familial support only deepened Karen’s struggles.
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A Complicated Life
Karen’s personal life added layers of complexity to her battle with anorexia. Her marriage to commercial real estate developer Thomas Burris was short-lived, ending just 14 months after their 1980 wedding. By 1983, they were officially divorced. The emotional toll of this failed relationship, combined with her mother’s lack of support, pushed Karen further into the grip of her eating disorder.
