Rising Early on the Ranch: A Glimpse into Tom Selleck's Morning Routine
Every day, on his sprawling 65-acre ranch nestled in the serene Hidden Valley of California, Tom Selleck begins his day before the sun fully awakens the sky. "I get up before Jillie and put on the teakettle," the legendary actor shares exclusively with Closer Weekly. "So, when she gets up, her tea water is hot." With a proud smile, he adds, "I think I’m pretty romantic." It’s these small, thoughtful gestures that keep the flame of love alive for this iconic couple.
A Marriage That Endures: Three Decades of Love
There's no denying that Jillie Mack, born in Wiltshire, England, shares the same sentiment about their enduring love. The two have been married for an impressive 33 years, weathering the highs and lows of celebrity life, raising a daughter, facing a scandal that could have shattered any relationship, and navigating the everyday challenges that test even the strongest of bonds. "They still love spending time together," a close family friend confides to Closer in the magazine’s latest issue. "They like the simple life." This simplicity, paired with a deep mutual respect, is the secret to their lasting relationship.
The Heart of Their Home: Life on the Ranch
The ranch, a place of tranquility and abundance, stands as the cornerstone of their lives. Tom, now 76 years old, acquired this piece of paradise in 1988 after wrapping up his final episodes of the beloved series Magnum, P.I., filmed in the lush landscapes of Hawaii. "He knew he needed to buy back his anonymity, to replenish the soul," Jillie, 63, reveals with insight into her husband's heart. The property, once owned by the legendary singer Dean Martin, offered Tom a retreat from the spotlight and a place to nurture his family.
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Leaving behind the glitz of Hollywood wasn’t an easy decision. "I quit Magnum to have a family," Tom confesses, his voice filled with the weight of that pivotal choice. The same year, he became a father to his daughter, Hannah. "It took a long time to get off the train, but I try very hard to have balance, and this ranch has helped me do that," he explains with heartfelt conviction. The ranch wasn’t just a property—it became a sanctuary where he could find peace and purpose.

A Team Effort: Life on the Ranch When Tom's Away
While Tom often takes on the "grunt work," the demanding physical labor involved in maintaining their working farm and horse ranch, Jillie steps into the role of caretaker when Tom is off filming his hit series Blue Bloods in New York. "We’re both independent," Tom muses, reflecting on their partnership. "There is a lot of yin and yang in us." He admits that he tends to be the quieter, more introspective partner, while Jillie shines with an outgoing and exuberant energy. "Jillie has this sort of joie de vivre, this effervescent quality that just lights up a room," he praises with admiration. Beyond being his wife, Jillie is his confidante and best friend.
Jillie gave up her career as a professional dancer and actress to follow her heart and move to the United States for Tom, but she harbors no regrets. "Jillie loves her life! Her happiness is her animals," a close friend reveals. With around five dogs she treats like family and a stable of horses, Jillie finds joy in the simple pleasures of ranch life. "The ranch is just magical," the friend continues. "They grow every fruit and vegetable imaginable. There are avocado trees, orchards, and even a pond. Jillie and Tom have everything they need right there on the ranch."
Challenges Faced Together: The California Water Crisis
Even paradise isn’t without its trials. During the California water crisis in 2015, when communities were urged to cut water usage by 25 percent, the couple faced a significant challenge. Their avocado trees, orchards, and lush gardens all require substantial water. A utility company accused them of stealing truckloads of water from a neighboring community over two years, leading to a lawsuit. However, a settlement was reached with their lawyer, and no criminal charges were ever pressed. This embarrassing public episode tested their marriage, but their unwavering commitment saw them through.
A Legacy of Love: Loss and Family
Tom and Jillie have faced heartbreak together, including the passing of Tom’s beloved mother, Martha, at the age of 96 in 2017. "She’s always been there and always been fair," Tom fondly remembers. "And she made a great cherry pie." Through loss, they have only grown stronger, their bond deepening with each challenge.



