Here's the thing—sometimes love hits you when you least expect it. For comedian Wanda Sykes, that moment came in 2006 when she spotted Alex Niedbalski on a ferry to Fire Island. Now, you might think that sounds like the start of a romantic comedy, but this is real life, folks. Fast forward a bit, mutual friends introduced the 2022 Oscars host to the talented interior designer, and from there, their love story blossomed. By 2008, the couple tied the knot, and a year later, they welcomed their adorable twins, Lucas and Olivia. Life truly does have a way of surprising us, doesn’t it?
Even before Wanda officially met Alex, she was already captivated. In a candid interview with The Guardian back in November 2018, Wanda revealed that the moment she saw Alex, she thought to herself, “Wow, that’s what you need, Wanda.” Love at first sight? Maybe. But what’s undeniable is the deep connection that grew between them over the years.

Coming Out: A Journey of Truth
Before finding love with Alex, Wanda had a different chapter in her life. She was married to music producer Dave Hall from 1991 to 1998. But life has a way of surprising us, and after marrying Alex in October 2008, Wanda publicly came out as gay just a month later. Now, this wasn’t something she planned—it happened during a marriage equality rally where she was put on the spot. As she shared in a heartfelt essay for InStyle in May 2021, “I was at a rally in 2008, and I was called up on stage to say a few words. I had nothing prepared, but I just came out right then. And the next thing you know, it was on CNN.” Talk about a bold move, right?
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Fire Island: The Place Where It All Began
Every summer, Wanda and Alex return to Fire Island, the place where they first met. It’s like a home away from home for them, a spot filled with memories and love. In 2021, they celebrated their 13th wedding anniversary, a testament to the strength of their bond. And guess what? The following year, Wanda got the exciting news that she would be co-hosting the Oscars with Amy Schumer and Regina Hall. But here’s the kicker—she didn’t tell Alex until the news was public. Why? Because Alex, as Wanda told People in March 2022, would have driven her crazy asking about it every day. “I’ll tell her stuff like, ‘Oh guess what? I’m shooting a movie in Hawaii,’ as I’m heading to the airport,” Wanda joked.
Alex’s Style and Sweet Gestures
Now, let’s talk about Alex. She’s not just a talented interior designer; she’s also a fashionista with a flair for style. When Wanda told her about the Oscars gig, Alex’s first thought was, “What am I going to wear?” And if you check out Alex’s Instagram, you’ll see she’s all about the fashion. But it’s not just about looks—Alex is also incredibly sweet. On Wanda’s birthday in March 2022, Alex shared a selfie with a caption that melted hearts: “Happy birthday to my National Treasure. I love you all the way.” Love like that? That’s the real deal, folks.


