When Matthew Perry, beloved star of Friends, passed away on October 28, 2023, the world mourned the loss of a truly remarkable man. Fans, family, and co-stars came forward to celebrate his kindness, humor, and unforgettable performances. Just a year before his untimely death, Perry spoke candidly about his hopes for the future, including starting a family of his own. Let's take a closer look at his personal life, dreams, and the impact he left behind.
Did Matthew Perry Have Kids?
While Matthew Perry did not have any children during his lifetime, he was incredibly open about his desire to become a father someday. It’s clear that he saw fatherhood as a natural extension of his warm, nurturing personality. “I think I’d be great,” Perry confidently told People in an October 2022 interview. “I grew up surrounded by little kids, and I really believe that’s why I feel this way. I can’t wait to welcome children into my life.” His enthusiasm and optimism painted a vivid picture of a man eager to embrace the joys of parenthood.
Was Matthew Perry Married?
Perry, best known for his role as Chandler Bing in Friends, was never officially married. However, his romantic life was filled with high-profile relationships that captured the public’s imagination. Over the years, he dated some of Hollywood’s most famous names, including Gwyneth Paltrow, Julia Roberts, Neve Campbell, and Lizzy Caplan. Each relationship added another layer to the story of his personal journey.
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In 2018, Perry entered into a serious relationship with literary manager Molly Hurwitz. The couple became engaged in 2020, but Perry later revealed in his 2022 memoir, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing, that his proposal was made under difficult circumstances. At the time, he was struggling deeply with addiction and loneliness. “I bought her a ring because I was desperate that she would leave me,” he wrote. “I didn’t want to face the challenges of the pandemic alone. I was high on 1,800 milligrams of hydrocodone when I asked her to marry me. Even so, I sought her family’s blessing before popping the question.”
Despite these challenges, Molly agreed to marry him. Perry described the moment with both honesty and vulnerability: “I proposed, high as a kite, on one knee. She knew exactly where I was coming from, and she said yes.” Unfortunately, the engagement ended in June 2021 after three years together. In a statement, Perry expressed his gratitude and respect for Molly, saying, “Sometimes things just don’t work out, and this is one of them. I wish Molly the best.”

What Did Matthew Perry Look for in Love?
After his breakup with Molly Hurwitz, Perry took the time to reflect on what he wanted in a future relationship. He spoke openly about overcoming his fears and embracing love with a new perspective. “I used to be terrified of relationships, but through a lot of hard work, I’ve managed to get past that fear,” he explained. “I’m learning as I go, and I’m more confident now. I have no interest in wasting time with someone who doesn’t truly resonate with me. The next person I commit to will be someone I deeply love, and I won’t let fear hold me back like it did in the past.”
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