There’s nothing quite like a love story that withstands the test of time, and the marriage between Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline is just that. While Phoebe has largely stayed out of the public eye, Kevin, now 77, embraces their quiet life together in New York City, away from the glitz and glamour of Hollywood. It’s a life they’ve built together since tying the knot in 1989, and it’s one they cherish deeply.
For over three decades, the couple has been raising their two children, Greta and Owen Kline, in a loving environment far from the spotlight. Kevin recently opened up about their relationship during an interview at the premiere of his latest film, Disclaimer, at the Toronto International Film Festival. He spoke candidly about the ups and downs of Hollywood marriages and how his bond with Phoebe defies the odds.
“If your marriage lasts more than six months in Hollywood, you’re already in the Guinness Book of World Records,” Kevin joked during the interview. Despite the challenges of celebrity life, the couple has managed to keep their relationship strong by staying grounded. They currently reside in Manhattan’s Upper East Side, where they enjoy a peaceful existence away from the constant attention of the entertainment world.
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A Life Beyond Botox: Staying True to Themselves
Kevin isn’t afraid to poke fun at himself or his lifestyle. When discussing their decision to live a quieter life, he quipped, “That’s why you’ll see no Botox. These are my lips, what’s left of them.” It’s this sense of humor and authenticity that keeps their marriage vibrant and real. Kevin credits much of their success to Phoebe, who he describes as a source of strength and honesty in his life.
“She’s got her head on her shoulders, unlike me. I usually have my head on her shoulders, too,” Kevin told Business Insider. “She’s a great wife, a great mother, and a great person. She keeps me honest.” Though he admits she lets him slip during interviews, there’s no denying the admiration he has for his partner.
Phoebe’s Career Choice: A Life Focused on Family
Phoebe, now 61, made headlines in 2001 with her role in The Anniversary Party, but it was clear even then that acting wasn’t her main focus anymore. Instead, she chose to dedicate her time to raising her family in New York City. In an interview with Fox News, she revealed just how much she enjoys being a hands-on mom.
“Some people have trouble with that, but I love it,” Phoebe shared back in June 2001. “I do it all. We have no help whatsoever, except for a housekeeper who comes in and cleans because, let’s face it, I hate doing that. But I cook dinner every night, and we’re all there together.” Her commitment to family life speaks volumes about the values she and Kevin share.

In The Anniversary Party, Phoebe and Kevin weren’t alone—they brought their kids, Greta and Owen, along for the ride. The film also starred Jennifer Jason Leigh, Alan Cumming, John C. Reilly, and Parker Posey. Kevin joked about the logistics of filming with his family, saying, “It was a matter of ‘Phoebe doesn’t leave her kids, so if you want Phoebe, the kids have to be there too.’ They would have been on the set, so you might as well have them in the movie.”
A Marriage That Stands the Test of Time
Despite their 16-year age gap, Kevin and Phoebe’s relationship has proven to be one built to last. In a January 2014 interview with The Guardian, Kevin reflected on how their union came about. “I was 40-ish when I finally stopped obsessing about acting and thought it would be nice to have a life and actually got married,” he said. “If I had married someone my own age, the possibility of progeny would have been very slim. It just happened that way.”
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Kevin has always been supportive of Phoebe’s decision to step away from acting and focus on motherhood and her boutique, Blue Tree, in NYC. “That was one of the many things I loved about her,” he explained. “She loved acting while she was doing it, but she was not driven by it, as I had been.” Their partnership is a testament to the power of understanding and mutual respect in a relationship.


