Let’s face it, folks, Tom Selleck is having a tough time moving on from the cancellation of Blue Bloods. But here’s the thing—he’s not letting go of the cast that became his TV family. A source exclusively tells Closer that Tom is keeping in touch with his cast mates around the clock, making sure to hang on to those bonds for as long as he can. This isn’t just about a show for Tom; it’s about family.
Why This Matters to Tom
Tom Selleck, the 79-year-old Hollywood icon, sees the Blue Bloods cast as more than just co-workers. After nearly 15 years of working together, these people have become an extended family to him. The source reveals, “Tom’s not treating this like a regular 9-to-5 job. Sometimes he’d be on set for up to 15 hours a day, sharing so much with these people. The thought of just walking away and never seeing them again is unbearable for him. That’s why he’s putting in the effort to stay connected.”
Tom's Heartfelt Words on the Show's Legacy
Tom has been candid about his feelings regarding the cancellation of the show. At The Paley Center for Media, during a panel discussion on the final season, he expressed, “I hope the audience takes away that Blue Bloods was a show worthy of tuning in for. I’ve always believed in the power of broadcast television, but lately, it seems to have taken a backseat. Not everyone wants to spend an hour flipping channels trying to decide what to watch. I’m proud that our show became must-see TV.”
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A Special Bond with Donnie Wahlberg
Among the cast, Tom shares a particularly strong bond with Donnie Wahlberg, who plays his on-screen son. The source shares, “Their relationship transcends acting. Playing father and son became so real for them. It’s not just a job for Tom and Donnie; it’s a friendship that goes beyond the screen.”
Tom loves to mentor Donnie, offering advice and checking in on him regularly. The source adds, “They text each other all day long. Whether it’s about the show or personal life, they’re always there for each other. It’s a genuine friendship that started on set and grew into something much deeper.”

Family Ties Beyond the Screen
It’s not just Donnie that Tom cherishes. His relationship with Bridget Moynahan is also incredibly special. The source adds, “Tom and his wife, Jillie Mack, treat Bridget like a second daughter. They’re protective and proud of her, just like a real family. In fact, they’re even considering hosting a watch party for the final episode next month, a way to keep the memories alive.”
Missing the Family Dinners
One of the most cherished moments on Blue Bloods was the family dinner scene, which happened once per episode. Tom says, “What I miss most is the camaraderie with my friends, my actor family. You always say, like in high school, ‘We’ll stay in touch,’ but it rarely works out that way. Everyone moves on, and suddenly, the opportunity to see everyone at those dinners, which happened once every eight working days, is gone.”
Tom adds, “The structure of our show allowed us to always look forward to those dinners. It was something we could count on.”
Tom's Final Thoughts on Moving Forward
The breakup of Tom’s “actor family” has hit him hard. As the source explains, “Tom doesn’t want to let these relationships fade away. He’s having a really tough time accepting that the show is truly over. He hasn’t given up hope for a spin-off, and the entire cast would love to work together again. For Tom, it’s not just about the show—it’s about the family he’s built over the years.”
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