When it comes to Hollywood's most dedicated couples, Robert Downey Jr. and his wife, Susan Downey, are at the top of the list. Susan, who’s not just his partner in life but also in business, has been his steadfast supporter for years. The Oppenheimer star has never shied away from expressing his admiration for her, whether it's on the red carpet or during award acceptance speeches. Let’s dive deeper into their incredible journey together, shall we?

Who Is Susan Downey?

Susan Downey isn’t just Robert’s spouse; she’s also a powerhouse in her own right. As an accomplished movie producer, she’s been behind the scenes of some major blockbusters, including 2002’s Ghost Ship, 2009’s Orphan, and 2010’s Iron Man 2. Her work in the film industry is nothing short of impressive, and her collaboration with Robert has only added to their already strong bond. Together, they’ve built a legacy that goes beyond the glitz and glamour of Hollywood.

When Did Robert Downey Jr. Marry Susan Downey?

Robert and Susan’s love story began on the set of the 2003 psychological thriller Gothika, where Susan served as the producer and Robert as the lead actor. It didn’t take long for their professional relationship to blossom into something much more personal. Although Susan admitted she was initially hesitant about dating such a well-known figure in Hollywood, their chemistry was undeniable.

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Recalling their first encounter, Susan shared with The Hollywood Reporter in October 2014, “We were up in Montreal prepping for Gothika, and we had lunch with the director and Halle Berry. Everyone else ordered Japanese, but Robert insisted that oatmeal was the ‘superfood.’ He brought his own packets of oatmeal and a box of herbs. And then he started doing yoga moves. He was definitely interesting, but a little weird at first.”

Despite her initial doubts, love found a way. By November 2003, they were engaged, and just two years later, in August 2005, they exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony in Long Island, New York. Their relationship has only grown stronger over time, proving that true love really does conquer all.

Robert’s gratitude toward Susan has been on full display throughout their marriage. At the 2010 Golden Globes, where he won Best Actor for his role in Sherlock Holmes, he gave a heartfelt shout-out to his wife. “I would like to thank Susan Downey for telling me that Matt Damon was going to win, so I didn’t bother to prepare a speech,” he joked. “But seriously, I wouldn’t be here without her. I could be bussing tables at the Daily Grill right now if not for her.”

Fast forward to January 2024, and Robert once again honored Susan during his Golden Globe win for his role as Lewis Strauss in Oppenheimer. He playfully referred to her as his “primary caregiver,” adding, “She’s made an art out of pulling me out of my comfort zone. But hey, she’s easy on the eyes, so it all works out.”

Robert Downey Jr. and wife Susan Downey wearing black outfits — JC Olivera/FilmMagic

How Many Kids Does Robert Downey Jr. Have?

Robert is not only a talented actor but also a proud father of three children. His eldest son, Indio Falconer Downey, was born from his first marriage to Deborah Falconer, which lasted from 1992 to 2004. With Susan, Robert has added two more children to the family—Exton Elias Downey and Avri Roel Downey. Parenthood, according to Robert, is one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences he’s ever had.

In an interview with Access Hollywood, Robert opened up about the joys and trials of raising his young son, Exton. “Exton loves to open drawers and grab knives—it’s not stressful at all!” he joked. “When he first started walking, it was exhausting and a little terrifying. But then he smoothed out, and now he can climb things. It’s wild how quickly they grow up.”