Take a look at Tom Selleck, and it's hard to believe this chiseled, ruggedly handsome man is about to turn 75. His age-defying charm and vitality have fans wondering if there’s some secret sauce to his youthful appearance. As Tom himself admits, "I didn’t really hit it big until I was 35, with Magnum, P.I. in 1980." But the real turning point in his life, he says, came much later—when he became an adult in his own eyes.
Tom’s Journey to Adulthood: A Late Bloomer
Tom opens up about his personal growth in interviews, sharing how his father’s passing in 2001 was a pivotal moment. “It hit me then,” he explains. “There’s no one left to turn to for fatherly advice. You’re on your own, buddy.” Losing his dad, a real-estate executive, was tough, but it marked a significant chapter in Tom’s life. His mom, Martha, who passed away in 2017, also played a crucial role in shaping the man he is today.
A Strong Foundation in Southern California
Growing up in Southern California, Tom had the kind of upbringing many only dream of. “I had amazing parents,” he reflects. “I could spend 20 years in therapy and still not find anything to blame them for. I’m incredibly lucky that way.” His parents gave him a solid foundation, which he carries with him to this day, both personally and professionally.
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Tom's Role as Frank Reagan on Blue Bloods
Tom pours his wisdom into the character of Frank Reagan, the police commissioner dad of a law-enforcement family on CBS’ hit show Blue Bloods, now in its 10th season. “There aren’t many characters on TV who represent what a good father looks like,” he told Parade. “That’s important. Fathers play a crucial role, and it’s something I’m proud to portray.”
Perspective on Fame and Success
Despite being one of America’s most cherished TV stars, Tom keeps his feet firmly on the ground. “As much as this industry has given me, life is about so much more,” he reveals. Success, fame, and fortune come and go, but character endures. “Fame is fleeting; popularity is unpredictable; money can disappear,” he explained. “But character? That’s what lasts.”
Family First
Tom’s family is the cornerstone of his life. Married to Jillie since 1987, they have a daughter, Hannah, who is now 31. “My wife is incredible, and our love grows stronger with time,” he gushed. “It’s a partnership that gets better every day.” Even as Hannah has grown up and started her own life—breeding horses on a farm—Tom remains a devoted dad. “You never stop being a parent, even when your kids are adults,” he notes. “She’s a remarkable young woman, and I’m proud of her.”
Tom’s birthday celebrations will be intimate, with just a few close friends and family members. “He’s reached a point where he just wants the people who matter most around him,” an insider shares. “Tom’s a low-key guy who values simplicity.”
