Let’s talk about love, Hollywood-style. Finding true love in Tinseltown can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack, but James Brolin? He hit the jackpot when he walked down the aisle with Barbra Streisand. The Life in Pieces star opened up to Closer Weekly in an exclusive interview, revealing the secrets behind their decades-long marriage and why their relationship has stood the test of time.

Love Takes Practice: Brolin’s Perspective on Marriage

James Brolin, now 80, has seen a thing or two about relationships. When asked about the secret to his long-lasting marriage, he shared a lighthearted yet profound truth: “Well, I’ll tell you—my secret is trying it with the wrong people twice!” he joked. But there’s wisdom behind the humor. “I always think there’s a reason that you’re with somebody, and you should stick with them. But there’s a balance there. Once you pick somebody, you’re binding yourself in marriage. It’s not just about picking the right person; it’s about committing fully.”

James Brolin Barbra Streisand — Evan Agostini/Invision/AP/Shutterstock

Rolling with the Punches: The Key to Making It Work

According to James, making a marriage work isn’t about avoiding challenges—it’s about facing them together. “There’s a reason you’re there, and no matter what negativity comes your way, learn to deal with it, both of you,” he explained. It’s not just about surviving the tough times; it’s about thriving through them. “You both have to agree on making sacrifices. Marriage isn’t just about taking; it’s about giving, too.”

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Marriage Counseling: A Tool for Success

Brolin, who tied the knot with Barbra Streisand in 1998, credits marriage counseling as a lifesaver for many couples. He shared a story about a friend who started counseling six months before their wedding. “It was her insistence, and if the guy hadn’t gotten into the habit and wanted her enough to go to that thing, then he was probably the wrong guy,” James said. For him, preparation is key. “Marriage is a journey, not a destination. You’ve got to be ready for the ride.”

Understanding Each Other: The Heart of a Strong Marriage

James also believes that understanding each other’s quirks and differences is essential. He referenced one of his favorite movies, Being There, starring Peter Sellers. “In the movie, Peter Sellers talks about something, and everyone thinks he means something else. They totally misinterpret what he’s saying, but they carry on the conversation as if they’re both talking about the same thing. I think a lot of marriage differences are like that,” he explained. It’s about finding humor and grace in the misunderstandings and using them to grow closer.