Listen up, folks. If you've ever dreamed of getting your hands on some of Debra Messing's stunning jewelry collection, you might want to get cozy with her teenage son, Rowan. During an appearance at Town & Country's Jewelry Awards on January 27, the ever-charming Will & Grace star revealed the only scenario where she’d part with her sparkling treasures.
Debra's Stance on Loaning Her Jewelry
Now, let me tell you something. Debra is not one to hand over her jewels lightly. “If my son’s girlfriend ever wanted to wear my jewelry, I’d just say no. Even if it’s prom: No,” the 51-year-old beauty firmly told Page Six at the event. Debra's collection is nothing short of breathtaking, featuring a pair of 5-carat diamond earrings from the 1880s, which she originally purchased from Fred Leighton, a renowned New York City store specializing in vintage and estate jewelry. These pieces aren’t just accessories—they’re family heirlooms.
When It Comes to Marriage
But hold on a second. Debra isn’t entirely heartless. “If he’s marrying the girl, then that’s different,” she reasoned. “Let’s start with borrowing and then once the ring is on the finger and we know she’s family, of course, I’ll be happy to give a few pieces away.” It’s clear that Debra values family deeply, and her jewelry collection is no exception. These pieces are not just shiny objects; they’re symbols of love and tradition.
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Rowan: The Fashion Consultant
Luckily for now, Debra doesn’t have to worry about her jewels leaving the family just yet, considering Rowan is still only 15. But don’t let his age fool you. The proud mom can’t stop raving about how quickly her little man is growing up. In fact, Debra even admitted that Rowan often helps her with her style choices! “He has very strong opinions about what I’m wearing,” the Along Came Polly star, who shares Rowan with her ex-husband Daniel Zelman, told reporters at the 2019 Critics’ Choice Awards. “I’ll put something on and he’ll be like, ‘I like that.’ I’ll put something else on and he’ll be like, ‘Nope.’”
Trust in Her Son’s Style Sense
Considering Debra looks like a radiant beauty every time she steps out for an event, it’s easy to see why she takes Rowan’s advice seriously. “You know what? Ninety-nine percent of the time, he’s right,” she confessed. “So he’s got a good eye.” The actress even admitted that she sometimes looks back at photos and regrets not listening to him when it comes to certain fashion choices. That’s some serious trust right there!



