As the legendary Tom Selleck gears up to celebrate his 80th birthday, the beloved star of Blue Bloods and Magnum, P.I. gave us a glimpse into how he plans to mark this major milestone. In a candid conversation with Parade, Tom, who recently turned 79, opened up about his thoughts on aging, life after Blue Bloods, and how he intends to celebrate his big day.
Tom Selleck on Aging Gracefully
When asked about his plans for his upcoming 80th birthday, Tom admitted that he doesn't dwell much on the numbers. "None whatsoever. I’m trying not to count," he confessed. "I stopped celebrating birthdays a while back. I intend to keep working." For someone who has spent decades in the entertainment industry, Tom's approach to aging is refreshingly pragmatic. He views life as a continuous journey, one that doesn't stop for birthdays or milestones. Instead, he focuses on what truly matters—his work, family, and relationships.
Family First: A Quiet Celebration
While Tom may not be one for extravagant celebrations, he acknowledges the importance of spending time with loved ones. Married to Jillie Mack since 1987, Tom shared that he'll likely spend his birthday enjoying a quiet evening with family. "I’ll probably have dinner with maybe my brother and my sister and Jillie," he remarked. "Just go out to dinner, kind of be quiet and not make a big deal of it." This simple yet heartfelt plan reflects the actor's down-to-earth personality and his deep appreciation for family bonds.
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Adjusting to Life After 'Blue Bloods'
As Tom approaches his 80th birthday, he's also navigating a significant chapter in his career—the cancellation of Blue Bloods after 14 seasons. The CBS series, which aired its final episode in December 2024, was more than just a show for Tom; it was a family. "The hardest thing I would say at this point [is] right now, this time of year, I would be shooting episodes of Blue Bloods, and I miss that," he told Entertainment Weekly. Tom voiced his frustration with the network's decision to end the show, but he's now focusing on the positive aspects of this new phase in his life.
The Emotional Toll of Saying Goodbye
Adjusting to life without Blue Bloods hasn't been easy for Tom. "The thing that tugged at me most in adjusting and will continue is the family of actors we had and the friendships we formed," he explained. "And you always say it’s kind of like high school graduation. Everybody says they’ll keep in touch and things happen. Well, that happens in movies too. You say you do a movie, establish relationships, and then it’s over." Tom acknowledges that these transitions are a natural part of life, but they're not always easy to navigate. "This is a more complicated one. It’s a 15-year relationship with most of those people, and it just doesn’t go away that fast," he added.
A Look Ahead: New Beginnings
Despite the challenges of saying goodbye to Blue Bloods, Tom remains optimistic about the future. "He’s seen and lived through a lot, and he feels rather fortunate to be here to talk about it," a source close to the actor told Closer. While Tom wasn't thrilled about the show's cancellation, he's determined to focus on the positives. "Sure, he wasn’t happy with Blue Bloods getting canceled, but he wants to focus on the positive and ring in 80 with smiles and laughter and not dwell on the negative stuff," the source added.
A Celebration of Life and Legacy
Tom's wife, Jillie Mack, and their daughter, Hannah Selleck, are planning a special celebration to honor his 80th birthday. "His wife and daughter are planning a big celebration at the farm with friends over to celebrate Tom and toast to his health and maybe roast him a little, too, all in good fun," an insider revealed. The gathering will take place at Tom's picturesque 63-acre avocado ranch in Ventura County, California, where he can relax and enjoy the company of loved ones.
A Blue Bloods Reunion?
While the celebration will be low-key, there's a good chance some of Tom's Blue Bloods costars will make an appearance. "No doubt, some people from the show will be invited, like Donnie [Wahlberg] and Bridget [Moynahan], which Tom will like very much. They’re all like family to him," the source added. This potential reunion would be a fitting way to celebrate Tom's incredible career and the lasting friendships he's formed along the way.
