Let’s talk about Dustin Hoffman, one of Hollywood's most iconic actors, whose life has taken some pretty dramatic turns. The 87-year-old legend, who’s been through his fair share of controversies, owes much of his current stability to his incredible wife, Lisa Hoffman (née Gottsegen). She’s been by his side through thick and thin, and trust me, there’s been a lot of both.
Now, here’s the thing: After Hollywood turned its back on him following accusations of sexual misconduct in 2017, Dustin found himself in a place where he felt completely undone. “He’s been taken down and made to feel like dirt in the years after Hollywood ‘canceled’ him,” a source exclusively tells Closer. But through it all, Lisa stood firm, refusing to let go of the man she loves, even when the world seemed to have.
The Unwavering Support of Lisa Hoffman
Here’s the deal: Lisa has always been there for Dustin, whether he deserved it or not. It’s not easy being the spouse of someone in the spotlight, especially when that spotlight turns harsh. According to the source, “Lisa always stood by him, no matter what. His career is slowly moving again, but he’s had to live by a series of strict rules to keep her satisfied.”
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And let’s be real, those rules aren’t just about keeping the peace—they’re about making amends. Dustin and Lisa have been married since October 1980, but their love story actually began way before that. Before Dustin became the household name we know today, he was a young piano prodigy. At just 16 years old, he played at the wedding of Lisa’s parents, an event that unknowingly set the stage for their future together.
From Weddings to Barbecues: The Early Days of Dustin and Lisa
A decade later, their paths crossed again at a family barbecue. Lisa recalls Dustin entertaining everyone with jokes, music, and even encouraging her to dance around the living room. In a 2007 interview with the Daily Mail, she shared, “Dustin was telling us jokes, playing the piano, and encouraging me to dance around the living room. After we got together, my grandmother reminded me that later that day I had said, ‘I hope he waits for me because I want to marry him.’”
Fast forward a few years, and fate brought them together once more—at Lisa’s grandfather’s funeral. She was 22, and Dustin was 38, but age didn’t matter. They knew they were meant to be, and the rest, as they say, is history.
A New Chapter: Dustin's Comeback and Redemption
According to Closer’s source, Lisa and Dustin do practically everything together. If Dustin’s on a set, he has to check in every hour, and he better be home in time for dinner. It’s clear that Lisa sets the tone for their relationship, and Dustin is more than willing to follow her lead. “Anything she wants, he’ll do. He’ll jump through hoops if that’s what she asks because the truth of it all is he has a lot of making up to do,” the source explains.
The allegations that surfaced in 2017 were a major blow to Dustin’s career. Seven women accused him of sexual assault, and it nearly derailed everything he’d worked for. “He’s lost friends and respect in the community that once treated him like a lord. He doesn’t want to lose Lisa, too,” the source adds. Dustin himself responded to one of the allegations, saying, “I have the utmost respect for women and feel terrible that anything I might have done could have put her in an uncomfortable situation. I am sorry. It is not reflective of who I am.”
Looking Ahead: A Family Legacy
After lying low for a while, Dustin has slowly started making a comeback. He’s still working, which is impressive considering he’s 87 and still carries the stigma of those allegations. Dustin and Lisa, who share children Jacob, Rebecca, Maxwell, and Ali, will celebrate their 44th wedding anniversary on Saturday, October 12.
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In a 2017 interview with Closer, Lisa revealed the secret to their enduring marriage. “I say in Hollywood it is like dog years, so you have to multiply that by seven,” she joked about their union, adding that their affection for each other “continues to grow.” Still, maintaining a strong relationship in the world of showbiz isn’t easy. “We’ve always had to work hard at it,” she said. “I knew I was going to end up with Dusty, and that my life would be traveling around with him.”
